Hunting a connection

Oh the challenges of finding a connection between two people!  Don't you love it? For many of us, the thrill is the hunt for that connection and once we've made it, we're temporarily satisfied, moving on to the next hunt. 

There are occasions when that hunt is never finished. Every few days, every few weeks, or every few months I may revisit a problem looking for new thoughts and ideas about solving it.  

One of the ways I keep track of some of the information is a spreadsheet. I like to put all the information in one place extracting the details and comparing the results. Often times this helps with visually seeing an exact problem. 

Another great method is simply writing it on paper. There is something to be said about putting down two items on a sheet of paper that just lets your brain understand what it is you are wanting it to figure out.  It is my favorite method of problem solving.  I was going to share a photo of one of my notebooks, but there are so many, I couldn't decide which was better.... 

Finally, ask for fresh eyes on the situation. If you have been sitting there staring at your screen, paper or spreadsheet for days, weeks or months, ask a friend to take a look at the info and tell you what they see and what stands out to them. Often people see things different and that is always a great help!

A word to people out there like me - accept help even if you are resistant to it. I definitely am an independent worker, but lately, I've recognized that I am not perfect (I know, right???) and that sometimes I need help. It's hard for some of us (pointing at myself) to admit that but we have some really great and tallented friends around us who can and will help! 

​Today, I'm working on something that makes me push my limits of trust and research. But, It's a good thing. 

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