I know many of us have grown up with books by the great Dr. Suess. My favorite I think of all times was always "Oh the places you'll go!".
"You will come to a place where the streets are not marked. Some windows are lighted. But mostly they're darked. A place you could sprain both your elbow and chin! Do you dare to stay out? Do you dare to go in? How much can you lose? How much can you win?" I can't tell you how many times I've gone to a cemetery and thought of this phrase. Let me explain that a little. I quite often end up doing these cemetery journeys on my own. I suppose firstly, because it's just me when everyone else is either at work or school and then secondly, because I've just not found a comrade to share this with who completely understands the adventures and the stories in these places. This week, I had the opportunity and privileged to listen to many people remember the life of families in what was the oldest home around. This pre-statehood log building housed just four family surnames since then. The open house brought along people who remembered and people who never knew. As you can imagine, you get the chance to hear some unique perspectives from people. Each story is unique. Every memory someone shared was specific to them and had never happened to someone else. I learned quite a bit by just saying "Hello" to strangers. People want to share their stories. They enjoy remembering. That's how I feel when I'm alone, quietly in a cemetery in the middle of the woods. I almost hear the stories being told on the breeze. I read their names aloud and photograph their memorial stones that contain what sometimes is the only remaining information that they can give you. Each cemetery has a unique feeling. Some are peaceful and quiet. Some are bold and forthcoming. Others yet sit waiting patiently for someone to listen. I hope this fall leads me back to some of these sacred places. To the still untold stories of the forgotten souls. Where the streets are not marked and the windows are darked. Daring to go in. There is so much to learn and so much to gain. Enjoy your Adventures in Genealogy!
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AuthorMichele is an obsessed mother of 4 residing in North Alabama. Hobbies include long walks in the woods, on the beach and in strange cemeteries and libraries. Genealogy friends need only apply. Categories
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